Friday, October 31, 2008

Happy Halloween!

I have wonderful memories of Halloween. As a child, I remember going overboard for the holiday. My mum would sew our costumes, the house would be decorated to the nines, and of course there would be plenty of candy come Halloween night!

Sometimes unfortunate circumstances would arise. Such as my dog getting into my candy the day after (I swear, that puppy could eat anything and be perfectly fine afterward!). Or the time that my candy got stolen from me while I was trick-or-treating. But both of these situations worked out for the best: my dog did not get sick and there was still plenty of candy that she hadn't broken into (huge mounds of candy, every year). When the older kid stole my candy, I chased him down the street until he realized that there was no way I was going to let him get away with my hard-earned goodies and he threw the bag into someones yard for me to retrieve before he went running off.

(No one gets between me and my favourite treats).

One of the most special treats every year was from my neighbour across the street who made caramel popcorn balls. They were so good that our other neighbours, whenever we stopped at their house to trick-or-treat, would urge us to go and get some extras and bring them back to them. And every year my sister and I would collect the extra popcorn balls, as promised, and cart them down the street to share with the adults.

Now that I'm in a healthier state of mind, I will not be going completely crazy for the Halloween treats this year. I am more interested in having fun getting dressed up-with a few indulgences in tasty treats, of course! And although I will not be giving out treats to the kids this year, I do happen to have a very special treat for all of you:

Popcorn Balls Recipe! Eight years ago I finally asked my neighbour for her popcorn balls recipe and she was kind enough to give it to me. These are messy and gooey and delicious; have fun!

Ingredients
1 cup brown sugar
1/2 cup corn syrup
1/2 cup butter
pinch of salt
8 cups popped corn

1. Grease a large bowl and put in popped corn.
2. In a pot, mix brown sugar, corn syrup, butter, and salt, and boil together for a minute or two- just long enough for it to spin a find thread when you dip in a spoon and hold it up.
3. Pour hot mixture over popped corn (be careful!) and stir until it is all covered.
4. Shape into balls. It's less messy and not quite so hot if you use plastic bags on your hands (rub the bags with a little butter).

Disclaimer: Popcorn Balls are not a health food. Please enjoy in moderation:)

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

All About Tea

I adore tea.

I didn't always like it, but when I went to Istanbul I knew that it would be incredibly rude if I refused their Turkish cay, which everyone seems to drink round the clock there. So I found myself drinking it every day and pretty soon I loved it through no fault of my own. And now I drink all kinds of tea by the bucket!

There is always a big pot of green tea heated up at work, and when I'm at home I tend to stick to white tea. It's tasty and warms you up and it is so good for the body! I also love how it can inspire relaxation and calming for the mind, too.

There's lots of different kinds of tea to choose from. If you want a quick breakdown of several different kinds of teas and the health benefits, just read this. Please also note the message at the bottom of the article which advises against drinking those bottled green teas and the like. Instead of supplementing, or getting your tea benefits through bottled drinks that have a bunch of sugar and crazy chemicals added, just drink the real stuff. Want to learn more? Check out Tea Muse where they discuss a wide range of health benefits!

Add a dash of honey or experiment with adding cinnamon or milk if its too bitter for you. Try ordering a London Fog at a cafe: black tea, water, and steamed milk (I request skim!), sometimes with the option of adding vanilla to it. So delicious!

Also, the strength of the flavour can vary depending on how long you let it steep for, so if its too strong then you can always try taking out the teabag earlier than recommended. And white tea is a good place to start if you're just getting used to it! It is a very light, mild tea, and it serves as a good initiator into the wonderful world that is tea. There are also flavoured teas and herbal teas, and also excellent yerba mate, so there's likely going to be something out there that you will enjoy.

Are you a tea person? What type of tea do you like best?

Monday, October 27, 2008

Preparation for Busy Days

Mondays are especially busy days for me. This 4-week boot camp session is extra early, so I wake up at 5am, go to boot camp from 5:30-6:30, race home to change and shower before walking the hour to work, work 9am-4:30pm, then walk back home for a quick bit to eat before walking the 15 minutes-ish to school for my class from 6-9pm. It's a lot of moving about and gives me very little time to gather my things together before I switch from one activity to the next!

Because of this, I've learned the art of preparing everything the night before. I set out 2 sets of clothes on Sunday evening (one for boot camp, one for work), pack my lunch and school books, and get a snack prepared and set it in the fridge to take for my evening class. This saves me tons of time in the morning! I can sometimes even check out what's going on in blogland early in the morning by looking at some of your wonderful pages between boot camp and work:)

Figuring out your schedule and understanding which days are the busy ones can be an enormous help for arranging your time wisely. Take a look at your calendar or agenda book, sort out which days you seem to be moving non-stop, and think about the different ways that you can help yourself out on those days. Even the little things, like deciding what you'll eat for breakfast in the morning and laying it on the table (PB2, a tablespoon, and an espresso cup to mix it in for my pre-workout snack!), can save you from rushing around to complete all of these little details. No matter how minute the task, those are precious seconds that add up really quickly! You know how they say that you can gain or lose 10 lbs in a year simply by increasing or decreasing your caloric intake by 100 calories a day? It's like that. Something so little that you won't even seem to notice it, but your body sure will- and you will definitely appreciate it when you're running out the door in the morning!

The key to all of this is to think about your day as a whole: what will you be doing and therefore requiring for the day tomorrow? Only thinking about the time period from waking up until noon can undermine the whole point of preparation if you haven't thought about the afternoon and evening. That's why I make my snack for Monday's evening class on Sunday night. Sometimes it will just be to chop up a couple carrots or to put an apple in my bag, but the idea is that you are thinking ahead. When you have already made your decision about what you will do, then you won't have to agonize about it later when you likely have many other things on your mind (by the way, you can do this to force yourself to exercise if you need some extra motivation, too! Don't give yourself a chance to consider the option; instead, just pack your water bottle and gym bag and know that you will be doing it at a certain time).

Planning on going out tomorrow evening? Check your wallet right now and make sure you've got cash in there. No need to worry about how you are going to have to make a stop at the bank between the commute from work to your house! I've already got tomorrow's theater tickets tucked in my purse so that I don't forget about them. On Sunday evenings in particular I also like to put all of my bags by the front door, have my toiletries pulled out of the cupboards and sitting on the bathroom counter, and to keep my keys and cell phone in the same pockets in my purse so I know where to find them. It just makes the routine of boot camp-home-work-home-school-home that much easier!

What are your tips and preparations to simplify your day and make it stress-free?

Friday, October 24, 2008

Poll: Justifying food choices

First of all, read this post from Elastic Waist.

People do this all the time around me. They seem to think that because I'm a health writer and am trying to live a healthy lifestyle, that automatically means that I'm judging them for everything that they do.

Therefore, they feel the need to justify: I haven't eaten in hours- I'm so hungry- I haven't indulged in a while- I walked a lot yesterday- it's just a couple glasses of wine- I'm PMSing- I'm really stressed- there's cream cheese in this so that's dairy so it's kind of healthy.

But it's not just other people feeling guilty when they sit down to eat with me. I do it too. I constantly hear people saying to me Goodness you eat a lot- you eat nonstop- don't let Sagan see what you're eating, it's not healthy enough- it's got olive oil in it so you can eat it because it's healthy.

I feel guilty, too. And I justify away what I am eating: I had boot camp this morning- it's salad so it doesn't matter if my portion is enormous- I know it's not incredibly healthy for me, but that's okay every once in a while.

Why do we feel the need to justify what we do to other people? We should only be doing what we feel is the right thing to do, and never mind if others are casting a critical eye over our eating choices. What's your take on this? Answer the poll and leave a comment below!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

New form of exercise: dodging cars!

If there's one thing that's essential to being healthy, it's being alive.

This is something which Winnipeg drivers, if my recent experiences as a pedestrian are any indication of, have a conflicting interest with.

I happen to value my life. And I'm going to just make the wild assumption right now that if all of you are alive and reading this, you likely feel similarly and echo my sentiment! We all enjoy living, right? Right.

So I am sure that you'll all join with me in a chorus of "CARS PLEASE SLOW DOWN WHEN I'M CROSSING THE STREET AND CLEARLY HAVE THE RIGHT OF WAY". Apparently those big flashy lights and large red signs at various intervals along the road aren't quite self-explanatory enough. Same goes for the cameras openly marked at specific intersections.

That's why I think that this idea is fantastic. But I would also like to point out that it is certainly not only young people who are speeding and acting reckless on the road- in fact, I'd go so far as to say that most of the idiots who veer straight towards me (10 points for hitting that girl on her way to school!) are middle-aged. Maybe a parental feature is needed in these cars, too?

Anyway, the good thing about drivers being irresponsible is that it gives me a nice brisk bit of exercise in the morning on my way to work or school. Especially during this rest-week between boot camp sessions. Between chin-up challenges and body-weight routines, I'll be dodging traffic to keep my energy levels up and brain alert today! How will you be squeezing in your workout?

Monday, October 20, 2008

Book Review: "Joining the Thin Club" by Judith Lederman

Look at my cute little cousins!!!





My auntie was telling me that there's a lot of things she didn't know about pregnancy and after the birth that no one thought to tell her. Even simple things, like fluid remaining in the body. Some things, you just have to learn from experience, and the doctors won't realize that it's something they should be telling you. I'm sure that there's a book somewhere that helps explain what to expect after the birth, but it's surprising that there's not more information about it out there. For some reason, it would appear that we have the idea that you only need information up to a point, and as soon as you've reached that point- you'll instantly know it all!

I find that this is very much the same when it comes to weight loss. There's all kinds of diet books out there but what about once you've reached your goal, and you're trying to maintain? What happens when you need to stop losing and start just living that way? Again, it's all just supposed to come naturally to us, with no guidance whatsoever.

Luckily enough, there's some places that do offer this information. One of them is Judith Lederman's Joining the Thin Club (Mark was giving away a copy of this book on his site, and I was the lucky winner- thanks, Mark!).

This book, while it is designed for people who have lost considerable amounts of weight (Lederman herself lost 80 lbs), can also be used for anyone who has turned their life around by becoming healthy. As I read through the book, a lot of it resonated with me. In describing one woman's challenges with losing weight and becoming healthier, Lederman writes "Interestingly, people used to give her disgusted looks when she'd eat huge amounts of greasy food, but no one said anything. Now, people seem to feel justified to say 'Stop reading the nutrition labels all the time- you're skinny now.' People have a hard time adjusting to change."

I have had many difficulties with this exact issue. Somehow, it is more socially acceptable to eat junk food than it is to eat healthfully. If you order healthier foods at a restaurant, it's amazing how critical people can be. Lederman discusses how to deal with these situations, how to get people used to your new lifestyle, and how to respond to the emotions you go through. It really focuses on the importance of changing your attitudes and becoming more positive- the very subtitle of this book is Tips for Toning Your Mind After You've Trimmed Your Body. She also details the necessity of figuring out why and how you got to being unhealthy, and why and how you became healthy, so that you can stick with it and "prevent backslides". It's a great read for anyone going through a major lifestyle adjustment or change!

Happy Monday:)



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Friday, October 17, 2008

Life Lessons: Try and Try and Try Again

I'm still getting used to the oven at my new apartment. It is very hot so I learned quickly that I need to turn it down about 25 degrees less than the temperature should be. Even so, sometimes I have a few problems with it, like yesterday.

I had decided to make some yam fries for dinner. I've got a great recipe adapted from Hungry Girl; just slice up the sweet potato, shake some cumin on each slice along with a sprinkle of black pepper and a pinch of salt, spread them out on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper, and pop them into the oven at 425 degrees (400, for my oven). After 15 minutes, I flipped my potatoes, and then went off to read while I waited for them to cook. Less than 15 minutes later I returned to take them out of the oven... and they looked like this:



Hmph. But I managed to salvage a few:



I was all set to give up and just eat a jar of peanut butter for dinner (stop looking at me like that. Starving student, right here), but then I remembered that there was some regular potatoes rolling around in the bottom of our pantry. No match for a sweet potato, but you've got to work with what you've got. So I sliced one up, laid it out on the baking sheet, added the spices, and baked them for just 10 minutes. Flipped them and baked them for 10 minutes longer, and voila!



Potato chips! Lovely golden brown. And they actually tasted exactly like chips do. Which I guess shouldn't surprise me that much, but I've only ever eaten the sweet potatoes this way, not regular potatoes, and there's a very distinct difference in taste. Also, because the vegetable is naturally quite juicy, it lends a slight oily feel to the chips so that you don't even miss the oil! They were delicious and I shall be for sure making these again.

So that's this weeks lesson! If you burn stuff, don't give up. Try again and see if you can get it right the second time. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Don't leave room for regret

Whether we like it or not, we are defined by the choices we make- be they active choices or indirect. We notice when people change their ways, and we make assumptions and draw conclusions from that. After eating the turkey leg at Thanksgiving for the first 18ish years of my life and then switching to the white meat, I received a lot of strange and perplexed looks.

The world must indeed be falling apart!

My change in diet has been noticed by everyone who has known me for any length of time, and it generates a great deal of curiosity, confusion, and teasing. My choices in that have shaped who I am, and regardless of if I want them to, I am defined by them.

Another critical choice that we make has to do with politics: what our ideals and values are, who we want to win, which party we vote for, and whether or not we vote at all. Last night the votes came in for our Canadian election, and my sister and I hosted a mini election party to watch the news coverage on CBC. There was a mix of people there; most of them felt very strongly that it is absolutely essential that everyone votes, but one person had completely forgotten about voting and another hadn't because she just didn't want to. Gasps of horror! (These are the kinds of things you just don't bring up in a room full of politics students).

But everyone reserves the right to vote. However, you can't choose to not have an opinion when it comes to anything, including politics: by choosing not to vote, that in itself is saying something. By choosing not to participate or engage in the discussions, that is, in the words of Deborah Tannen, "marking" you.

Remember this the next opportunity you have to vote or make a statement in your community. Remember this when you buy food at the grocery store and go exercising (or when you don't). Remember this when you're choosing for both big and small things- remember it, so that you are choosing what you really believe in and truly value, rather than making a half-hearted choice.

Remember that what you do, or what you don't do, tells the world who you are and defines your identity.

Are you making choices that you're going to stand by and stick to?

Monday, October 13, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving!

We celebrated Thanksgiving this year with our usual big family dinner yesterday- although our number was reduced by two around the table because of something special that happened last week... my auntie had twins! Girls (Taylor and Alexa) and so so cute. So my uncle and aunt were unable to attend but we sent over a Thanksgiving dinner plate for them to have a delicious meal at the hospital. I am incredibly excited to have two little cousins to play with:)

We had a nice big feast: turkey, stuffing, sweet and sour meatballs, brussel sprouts, glazed carrots, homemade buns, and mashed potatoes (a fantastic recipe from Tosca Reno's Eat Clean Cookbook), followed by my mum's heavenly apple pie and pumpkin pie. Very tasty.

As we all dug into the apple pie, the conversation turned to the question of if we had any cheddar cheese to eat with the pie. Apparently my grandpa used to always eat a slice of cheddar cheese with his apple pie. The idea of this never occurred to me before, although Macs and Spartan apples taste delicious with a slice of cheddar cheese, so it would make sense that it would go well with apple pie, too. There was also the mention of how people generally eat whipped cream with pumpkin pie, but ice cream with apple pie (I prefer mine bare- pie tastes so good, why would you want to mask the flavours with all those toppings?!).

This conversation reminded me of how strange it was when my family and I first moved to the Netherlands and saw all the Dutch eating their french fries with mayo. It seemed such a strange idea! Similarly, the British kids that I went to school with there all liked to eat potato chips alongside their hot dog in the bun- such an oddity to my mind.

When you've been eating the same food combinations for much of your life, it's difficult to even recognize them as being unusual. I don't think that many of my food pairings these days are so very unusual, but when I was little I used to love eating buttered bread with peanut butter smeared over it (sometimes I think that my family is convinced that my passion for health is a sham. After all, how can a kid possibly grow up insisting on white bread, buttery popcorn, lots of chocolate, slurpees, and croissants in excess, and suddenly switch over to the other side? Must be some kind of compensation going on there:)). Do you have any peculiar food pairings? Heard of any strange ones? Got an idea for something you think would be interesting but have yet to give a try?

Yesterday was also the day that I was supposed to do as many crunches in a minute as I could manage, to see how much I've progressed so far with the challenge. I gave it my all and managed to complete 64 crunches in 60 seconds- surpassed the challenge goal! Two challenges down, one more to go (so far).

Friday, October 10, 2008

Life Lessons: Fashion Choices for Exercising

Lace up those shoes! We had such a nice discussion going about walking the other day that I feel the need to elaborate some more on it today.

I am lopsided. My right leg is a good inch (roughly) shorter than my left leg. All of my shoes have to get lifts built into the bottoms of them so that my right leg is propped up to the same height as my left leg (somehow this doesn't do much for overriding my natural clumsiness, though). Because I have to find very specific shoes that can allow for the lift to be added on, shoe shopping is pretty much hell for me. Did I mention that I lovelovelove shoes?

This all results in me wearing shoes until they are falling apart on me. A couple weeks ago I sadly threw out an awesome pair of pink skater-type shoes because the cloth had worn through and there was plastic poking out, causing it to cut into my heel. I spent one very painful morning hobbling my way to work with my foot bleeding for a solid 45 minutes. My recommendation is to not try that out for yourself!

It's important to wear the proper workout attire when you're going out for a walk, or doing any form of exercise. We all know the common sense rules- "don't wear high heels" is a given, of course- but then there's the more elusive tips that never occur to you until you're placed in a situation which alerts you to the fact real quick. Such as my experience last week at boot camp, when I wore the wrong kind of underwear and it decided to start slipping down over my (lack of) hips. I have never been more grateful for the darkness of 6:00 am for providing cover while I discreetly pulled up my underwear mid-run.

As the weather gets colder, it's also important to wear lots of layers. You don't want to freeze, but you also don't want to overheat! Now that it's just the beginning of fall, I like to wear my regular shirt and a sweater or jacket with a big fleece over the top so that I can make the choice partway through the walk/workout if it would be more comfortable to take off the fleece. It's not quite cold enough yet, but once the river freezes over and I start skating again I'll be wearing long underwear beneath my jeans for extra protection from the cold.

I am just beginning the 20 chin ups challenge (which is going excellently, by the way!) and there is a park just a couple blocks away from my house, so I'm taking advantage of the monkey bars while I do it. As I found out yesterday while it was raining, though, it can be difficult to hold onto those cold and wet bars when the weather is less than ideal! Investing in warm gloves with a bit of traction is definitely on my list of items that I need to add to my exercise wardrobe.

What kind of workout gear are you stocking up on as the weather changes? Any insights that you've had recently about what not to wear when exercising?

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Walking



For me, walking is life. When I'm stressed, overwhelmed, or upset, my treatment of choice is to go out for a long walk. It clears the head and is very relaxing. It is fantastic for the health of your body. The great outdoors also provides wonderful things to see: between the trees and houses and movements of daily life, it's difficult to get bored of the sights!

But one of the best parts about walking is the people you encounter. I am sure that my life would be far more dull if it didn't involve as much walking as I do. There was the time that I passed by a little boy playing "Hot Cross Buns" on his recorder, and his little sister sitting beside him holding up a sign that read "Chang" (and how cute is a little kid who can't spell!). Then there's the conversations I've had with total strangers- the guy who cheerfully walked with me into a store and wanted to buy me a stuffed zebra statue, the old man who passed by me and noted that I was late for work (he must have seen me walk past his house every day), the girl who stopped me to ask where I had found my jacket because she had just bought boots that would go great with it, and the more recent occasion when a man started telling me all about his current situation in life. (He's been a carpenter for years but decided to go back to school, get his education degree, and become a teacher. Then he asked me what I do and became very enthused about my studies before going off in his own direction).



You can also have chance encounters with people you already know. Lately I have been running into some of my high school teachers while out and about, whom I haven't seen in a long time. And yesterday I happened upon the (now ex) boyfriend- I hadn't really seen or spoken to him all that much since Italy, so it was very nice to catch up!

Talking with the little kids at their patrol stations is always enjoyable, as are conversations with the homeless people who live around my area and dog walkers out for a stroll. It's so interesting to speak with people with completely different backgrounds and different lifestyles from your own. You learn something new, socialize a bit, expand your own knowledge and understanding of the world, relax your body and clear your mind so it's ready to get back to work, and have strange stories to relate to others all at the same time that you're exercising! All for the price of some decent shoes. I can't think of a better way to spend the time.

Does walking work for you? Or is there another exercise that you enjoy which you think might be even more beneficial to your overall health?

Monday, October 6, 2008

How about a new take on celebrities?

Last week I saw the new Woody Allen film, Vicky Christina Barcelona. Besides it being a fantastic movie, I couldn't help but be totally amazed by the real beauty that Scarlett Johansson, Rebecca Hall, and Penelope Cruz all possess.

I mean, just take a look at these images. That is a woman with really gorgeous curves! Want more female eye candy? Click here. And don't worry, I'm not quite finished yet- one last link for you!

Are these women thin? Yes, but I think that they are healthy-thin. They've worked for those bodies. It's their job to look that way, and they appear to have balanced a healthy lifestyle with the demands of society and the media. They look as though they celebrate their curves, they embrace their bodies, they do what they can to keep themselves in top condition.

And yet. We rarely hear anything about these women.

My question to you is this: why do we spend so much time staring at women such as the ones from 90210, and railing on about how thin they are and how it's terrible and they need to gain weight etc etc, when instead we could be raving about how great it is that there are other celebrities who have not fallen under the spell of eating disorders? Why do we place so much attention on the negative, which probably makes these already ultra-self conscious, super-skinny girls just spiral downwards, when instead we could be just enjoying the entertainment they provide for us (not their lifestyles, but the shows and movies that they star in), and be congratulating actresses like Scarlett Johansson for their ability to rise above the harshly critical public eye?

It's not our place to judge. And it does no one any good to put the spotlight on diseases like eating disorders. People suffering from those conditions need a helping hand, and we could be spending our time appreciating and becoming empowered by the role models we see who accept and love their bodies.

This is an absolutely fantastic post/photo of beauty in 1919. It looks to me as though "beauty" and "healthy" were synonymous during those times... why can't beauty and healthy mean the same thing in the present day?

Friday, October 3, 2008

The Abs Challenge!

Tim Rosanelli was kind enough to send me a link to the new challenge he has created.

That's right, everyone. Inspired by the one hundred push up challenge, this challenge is to work on your abs: 60 sit ups in one minute!

(Yes, that high-pitched girly squeal of excitement is in fact coming directly from your computer).

From the time when I first found out about the one hundred push ups challenge, I was wishing that there was something similar for the abs. I even contemplated creating some kind of program on my own. Needless to say, I never quite got around to doing that.

And now it turns out there's already a sit ups challenge! And we're going to rock it.

From looking around the 60 Situps in a Minute site, I discovered that Tim has his one hundred push ups badge there and also a 20 pull ups challenge badge! I wasn't even aware there was a program for doing 20 pull ups.

Life ain't fun if it's not fraught with challenges. This is why on Monday I will be beginning both the 60 sit ups in a minute challenge (or rather, 60 crunches in a minute, because I prefer crunches to sit ups and I in my non-expertise think that they might be better for your body), as well as the 20 pull ups challenge.* Who's with me??

*I don't actually know if I'm capable of performing even one pull up at present. In the past I've succeeded in doing at most 4 chin ups in a row, but chin ups are much easier than pull ups. So I'm going to do this challenge but with chin ups first (an option that they suggest for the program), and once I've mastered the 20 chin ups I'll move on to 20 pull ups. I'm guessing it'll take me a long-ass time to complete this challenge. I can't convey right now how very, very much I'm looking forward to how tough this is going to be:)

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Life Lessons: Learning your Likes and Dislikes

It took me 8 years of piano lessons, competitions, and hours of practicing, to figure out that even though I won first or second place fairly often, music just isn't for me. I have zero natural music talent. And after I quit piano lessons, I had no inclination to play the piano. And that's okay.

It was back in the spring, as some of you may recall, that I came to the realization- after several months of intense running and training for a half marathon- that I really, really don't enjoy running. It took me a while to come to that conclusion, to learn that I was only running to deal with my depression. So I stopped, knowing that using it as an escape wasn't healthy for me.

Did I quit exercising altogether? Ha! On the contrary, I threw myself into the fun of exercising; experimenting with belly dancing, boot camp, biking, and the one hundred push ups challenge. I figured out what didn't work for me. Then, I experimented to see what did (and check out this fantastic blogger for someone who really experiments with fitness!).

Last night we celebrated my mums birthday (Happy Birthday!), and after a fabulous dinner and some mini cupcakes for dessert I still had the munchies for something crunchy. I opted for carrots.*

I've learned through trial and error that some healthy snacks- like smoked mussels- aren't going to work for me. But others, like carrots, will be satisfactory.

We've got to experiment along the way, and figure out what we do and don't like. What works for us, and what doesn't. I've got an enormous list in my head of replacement foods for things which don't agree with me, the healthy and the unhealthy alike- champagne for hard liquor, cheesecake for ice cream cake, raw spinach for cooked, air popped popcorn for chips.

These things- my replacements- aren't going to work for everyone. And that's what we need to remember: tastes are very individualized. It takes some time to "get" what does and doesn't work for your body, and you're always going to be learning new things about what you do and don't like. But once you figure some of them out, you can know which things to rely on and which to pay no attention to.

It's also handy, in times of celebration (such as the birthday season!), to know these things so as to achieve maximum enjoyment. Indulge in what you enjoy, and what your body appreciates, and forget about what doesn't work. For the healthy and the unhealthy. You really hate brussel sprouts? Don't eat them. Eat asparagus instead.

Try them all out! Make mistakes. It's all worth it to figure out what works.

*I'm not always quite so good at the self-control. I had 3 pieces of (somewhat healthy) cake at one of my birthday celebrations (we don't *believe* in one-day celebrations in my family!) and then some chocolates afterwards. Oops:)